no rest for martyr mother last vacation 1988 go wonder boss babe caring control freak hardest working teacher ever seen workaholism avoidance strategy rarely diving self work deep emotions neglected ugly projection body language listen or pain prison stoic shadow lonely evenings identity job pays in aloneness burden regrets three ex-husbands
my life a gift dear champion forgetting eye color forgiven walked out freeing the two of us thanks for being that brave 20 year old our family tree honored only your branch grows.